Wedding Jitters, get out pls.

Help!!!! I get the jitters... the dreaded wedding jitters.

This Saturday is the day I've been waiting for, the day I have been dreaming of, the day I will marry my special someone who holds me on his world for 5 years.

Everything is indescribable and unexplainable. I tell you, brides to be, the feeling is really different. You feel all the nervousness, the bad dreams, the pitfalls, but topping it most, the excitement.

I think I need to grip on the reality and moderate my expectations. It's this lil devil of perfection in me that is causing me to have this jitters and weird dreams.

It's really funny and weird. And I think all the brides went through this kind of feelings. I can't sleep well, I can't eat well. I am very emotional. I can't make my sanity intact. At some point, when some things trigger up and I suddenly burst out and decided to break my fiance. Fortunately, after a second i get back to my senses. hahaha

Then you know what's worst? You tend to magnified little things, like for example if he doesn't want you to get involve in making give-aways because he wants you to just relax, you think otherwise, He is controlling you. If he leaves dishes in the sink now, does that mean he won't help me with the housework down the line?

Hay Lord. These wedding jitters are making me crazy and giving me butterfly tensions in my tummy.. But they say, this is very normal. All you have to do is control it and calm yourself.

This is not about---doubting your partner but the feeling is just different. It's not also about being stressed over wedding details but its the bickering thought that you will be taking an enormous step in your life. Pretty normal, especially for a first time bride...I doubt it there is second, third..oh no...

Brides-to-be, take it from me, you will really go through wedding jitters. Just don't panic, it's normal. Understand that feelings, its intensity But you need to stop it. You have to sort your doubts, calm yourself and move forward. Wait for the most memorable day of your life.
Know, that it has nothing to do with the quality of relationship with your future hubby and the ability to have enduring marriage.

After all, YOU BOTH ARE MEANT TO BE.

And Yes, I could simply and surely say, WE ARE MEANT TO BE.

Wedding jitters, now get out pleaaaase.

Ms. Cebu 2009

I am such a fan of beauty pageants especially Miss Cebu, so I basically know just a thing or two. Beauty, Grace, and lets include the GOWNS!

This year pageant was one of my favorites. I like all the contestants, well not so much of their beauty but their intelligence and confidence plus their styles.

And you know what makes it special this year? My wedding gown designer, Harley Reudas was the one who designed the evening gown of the newly crowned Miss Cebu 2009, Kris Tiffany M. Janson.

Another Masterpiece.. Congratulations HARLEY RUEDAS! Can't really wait to wear my wedding gown designed by YOU.

Playing Mean Girl

Soon.. Soon.. I will be playing mean girl to those suppliers who have given me wedding stresses.
I will have my revenge... i will surely have.

Pardon, for I couldn't stretch my long rope of patience anymore. I can't stay mum.

On the other part, I want to guide future bride/groom to tap very professional people for their wedding so they wont be wasting their money and at the same time, they wont experience the ill feelings I have because of their inefficiency and pagka inutil.

Hala, with the power of www, bantay jud mo.

More of our Pre-nup

I hail Mr. Jim Ubalde! You just made my story of the day.
Thank you for the beautiful pictures.

You are like a sweet forest of pleasant glades and whispering branches to me.

It's a hahahappy moment each day with you.

Ohhh, you charm me immeasurably!

I now live in a perpetual embrace, huggin' the sweet thought that you are mine.

I picture you in all sort of ways, as I have seen you since. You made my world.

Wedding Wishlist

My wedding is just 3 weeks away from now. I am having pandemonium of emotions . It's just different.

I can't simply wait to wed my MAN. Thats it!

Many have been bugging us what gifts we want for our wedding. Okay. . now you are giving us extra reasons to be excited on our wedding day. We can't wait to be like pirates looting for a treasure trove-- for us us to open the biggest gift or the one that has the fanciest wrapping design. hehe

We would love to have these things for our new home:

1. Mattress
2. Pillow cases/ Blankets/ pillows
3. Comforters
4. Curtains
5. Throw pillows /cases
6. Vases/ could be with flowers
7. Bed Sheets
8. Paintings (lots of them) har har
9. microwave
10. sets of knife
11. casseroles/ frying pans
12. spoon and forks
13. plates and bowls
14. glasses
15. iron
16. iron horse
17. hangers
18. electric drill (power tools)
19. lanterns
20. lamp shade
21. towels
22. tent (outdoor tent or outdoor umbrella)
23. Cash Gifts...haha

Everyone, no pressure. Your presence alone is the best wedding gift you can give to us. But if you are planning to give us something special on that day, THANK YOU. We would be very grateful and would treasure that for the rest of our lives.

Thank you so much in advance.